On the night He was arrested, Jesus predicted that Simon Peter, His closest earthly friend, would deny I'm three times. And He realized that the guilt of Peter's denials might be enough to destroy Peter's fragile faith. Look at the Lord's words in Luke 22:31-32. "Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift each of you like wheat. But I have pleaded in prayer for you, Simon, that your faith should not fail."

Likewise, in the Old Testament, the prophet Samuel said, "As for me, I will certainly not sin against the Lord by ending my prayers for you." (I Samuel 12:23). These two passages - and many others - emphasize the value of intercessory prayer for fellow Christians.

If prayer is the means of ministering in another person's life, why would we overlook this ministry to our spouses? What would happen in your marriage if throughout each day, whenever your spouse comes to mind, you prayed for him or her? Why not try this in your life and see?

God is concerned about the inner workings of our marital relationships. Perhaps if we did more praying for each other, we would not only have greater spiritual intimacy but less unresolved conflict in our marriages.

Take time to pray and focus on the needs of others. Think of the people in your life who are hurting or need help. Start with your loved ones. Be as specific as possible in making your requests. Think about how you want God to work in each of their lives.

Time to reflect on these questions:

What percentage of your typical prayer is intercession (praying for others)?

What are the keys to effective intercession?

Who are five people in your life who need God's help right now?

Consider these passages for further study on prayer:

John 15:7 If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.

1 Timothy 2:1 I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession, and thanksgiving be made for all people—

James 5:13  Is anyone among you in trouble? Let them pray. Is anyone happy? Let them sing songs of praise.

Always thinking of others leaves you humble. Take time for Intercession. Thoughts from Gary Chapman can make a difference in your outlook today.